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Posted by Wendy on December 27, 2004 at 23:01:54:

In Reply to: 25th wedding anniversary ... surprise or not? posted by aubrey on December 25, 2004 at 04:44:51:

My vote is for no surprise. Party planning is such fun, they may want to be in on the planning from the start. If they want to take over, let them...it is, after all, their day. If you must cling to a surprise of some sort, fly in cousin Minerva who was the maid of honor or something.

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